Thursday, January 15, 2015

This Might Just Be The One!

This second semester is starting off well so far. I'm a little shocked and keep looking over my shoulder to see if a train is coming to wreck it all! I shouldn't feel that way though. I'm all prayed up about it and know that is the ONLY reason it's going smoothly. That and the fact that I have got to get my head out of the dirt and focus! So when I came across this beauty I thought to myself, "Self, This Might Just Be The One!!" A perfect planner for this homeschooling mama of four!

However, when it comes to homeschooling I don't believe with one ounce of my being that there is a perfect planner. Every single mom that I know always has questions as to how to plan their days and weeks of homeschooling. I read about it every day, and with 4 kids I've been asked how I do it many many times. I always stumble to answer that question because I'm not sure how I do it either!! Our schedule has slowed down greatly in the past few months, but I know that very soon it will get busy as bees on a warm Spring day!!

So let me tell you about this gem that I found, at Wal-Mart of all places. Not sure why I was even looking at planners cause I was pretty happy with the one I was using. Except for the fact that I had to tweek each month and week to reflect all the non-related homeschooling tasks that we have going on. What I'm using now is also a big chunk of a book and I am not comfortable carrying it with me when I need to. There were only two left and they were this shiny hot pink. I had looked at this same layout before in a smaller version but decided there just wasn't enough room for me. I don't write that small and when I look at the big picture, I want to see the flight plan of the brood when the busy season gets here.



   


The Day-timer website shows a purple and a green planner as well and there may have been a blue, which makes sense because the months are divided up into one color per quarter using the pink, purple, green, and blue. I was able to find the same colors in removable tabs and put the first letter of each month on the monthly calendar, using the coordinating colors for each quarter. There is something about putting together a planner that helps me to get my mind in the game. Maybe I'm a little OCD as well because coordinating colors makes me feel like the world is going to be ok! 

Here is the view for a blank slate each week. Look at the possibilities in which you could keep track of the many aspects of your life on this! You know you are a planner junkie when you see this and your heart skips a beat! 





Now feast your eyes on the filled in version that is specific to a homeschooling family. Well, mine at least. As you can see I have added subjects to the first shaded column which I believe was intended for Mom. I use the spaces above the grids for my area instead. I do not list all subjects everyday, but there is plenty of room to list the core subjects each day if I so desired. Being the first of the 2nd Semester, I didn't plan for each subject everyday to give more time for review and getting back into the routine again. I'll explain in an upcoming post more about how I'm approaching our current grade levels.

Believe me when I tell you that these pages do not reflect what is coming in the Spring with sports and all the activities that we hope to be doing with our support group. I'll have to add times for sports practices for 3 of the kids, piano lessons and classes on Wednesday for one, as well as fill up Saturday with game times for the 3 sports. Whew! I'm sure there is something I'm forgetting though.............



When you look at these pictures above you can see page numbers and notes on lessons. No, I did not pre-plan these page numbers and write them in before the work was done. I have for years tried to write out what my kids will be doing months from now, only to end up re-doing EVERYTHING I had written out in my planner, or completely wasting the space. I whittled it down to writing out only a couple of weeks, only to have to re-do those plans as well! Thank God someone invented the eraser and white-out. 

I guess our life is just too pliable like play-doh. Push in too hard on one side of the ball and you've changed the entire shape and look of it. That use to make me go red with frustration, but wisdom has taught me that it's all good and I need to chill out. My kids are learning and I see it everyday. 
I'll be talking more about that in the future as well.

I always felt jealous of the journal approach of homeschool planning that I would read about on other blogs, and now I know why. Because that is the method for me! I no longer plan ahead, I write down what they have done each day. That way the next time I open their book to see where they are at, all I have to do it look at the last thing I wrote down.

 When I plan a subject, however, I do go over it and make notes on a large sticky note and post it inside or outside the book to help me remember what needs to be done and when. Now, having said all this and giving you a glimpse into how I plan for lessons, I want you to realize that all this TAKES TIME and a little creative thinking on your part.. I've preached those words too many times to count to my friends and to myself. In my mind, Sunday was the perfect day to plan for next weeks lessons. And each Sunday I would crash or get distracted with hanging with the family or my crochet projects. Do you have a day that you always want to do your planning but it ALWAYS BACKFIRES?! If you do, trash the notion of that day being your planning day and pick another one.

Some families tend to do better flying by the seat of their pants and that is perfectly fine if it works. On the other hand, if you are thinking that maybe you need to start writing things down and keeping track of your family's chaos, I highly recommend this planner. Give me a month though and I'll give you an update on how it is working / or not working to contain our chaos. 

And yes, I've put this in a category of habits. If you want to feel like you have it all under control (don't laugh), then a habit this must become. 









Thursday, January 8, 2015

They Are Cold Too

In light of yesterday's deep subject of quitting, I decided to give us stressed out homeschooling Mommas something funny to laugh at. Seriously though, these pets of ours can be quite warm when we are feeling down. :)


B# 4 is 8

Our littlest brood turned 8 years old this past Sunday....wait, what did I just say? 
That can't be correct!? WE BLINKED!!!! 

As he was sitting on my lap on Saturday night (picture of him giving the peace sign), I realized he would never ever be 7 years old again. He is my last 7 year old child. I took a long look at him, and while fighting back tears, realized he is growing up so fast! I use to think there were no differences in boys and girls but I have been proven wrong and I'll openly admit it! Boys are so much fun for a Mom who has tomboy genes! 

He is a answer to prayer because when I found out I was pregnant with him I knew that would be my last child. We already had 3 girls and I knew deep down my King Bee wanted and needed a boy. I'll never forget the day I asked God to give us a boy, and I'll never forget the day that my prayer was answered.

We are so thankful for this spirited bundle of boyishness and I know he will make someone a awesome husband one day (or else!) 





French Breakfast Muffins (a tradition for each birthday at our hive)
The recipe can be found on our From the Kitchen page.

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Talking About Quitting


It's January...already. Another year flew right by and I don't think anyone caught a good glimpse at it. I know it sure seems that way to me. Time sure flies when you are having fun doesn't it?? However that picture above sure doesn't look like much fun is happening. For most homeschooling families, we are smack dab in the middle of the 2014/2015 school calendar. Many of us are taking this time to change things up and tweek curriculum (which many times means throwing it out the window.) Many of us are also struggling EVERYDAY with the chaos that Heidi St. John (click here to visit her post) describes in the titled post above. 

Hot tears began streaming down my face as I thought about all that I had on my plate besides homeschooling. “Why am I even doing this? Does it really matter? I hate this! I want to QUIT!” Not sure about you, but I've been there and have the t-shirt!

I have a bad habit of subscribing to all sorts of e-newsletters and never ever read them. All except for Heidi. I relate to so many of her posts and always come away from reading them feeling a lot better about myself. If you are in the middle of a storm in your homeschooling, keep on going because Heidi is right, it is ALL worth it. 

I lead a local homeschool group and have contact with a good number of families. I've had so many Mom's come to me lately talking of putting their children in public school because they are just so stressed and feel they can't take it anymore. I always get a sinking feeling when approached about that topic. I know from experience though that most of the time it is a Mom who just needs to vent about the current wave of chaos ensuing upon her home. I've had two Mom's in just as many days come to me with frustrating words of discouragement about the beginning of this next semester for their family.

Hey, Mom!!! We are going to have moments of extreme chaos run rampant through our home and set us so far back that we can no longer see the finish line. But don't stop. Take a breather. Take a long breather if you need to. If a problem area is your kids deceiving you about the work they finished (like what was going on in Heidi's schoolroom; as well as a dear friend of mine who just happened to message me about the same issue with one of her kids), take a disciplinary action to your kids. A public school teacher wouldn't put up with that, why should you? As a matter of fact you would be working with that teacher to correct the matter!  Deceit is a character issue that needs addressed and I have found that whatever issue I am having with my kids, whether it be not doing their work or not doing a task that has been given, is directly linked to me not making them accountable for their actions. 

My house will turn into a war zone if I don't hold my kids accountable for what I ask them to do. Many times I just do the task myself or put it on the back-burner, which then causes the house to become unrecognizable as a home, or the kids getting behind in school work or worse yet, me turning into a MOMSTER! 

If you are feeling like quitting...DON'T. Unless there are family circumstances that require you to put your children into public or private school, then you know that is the best option. Instead, take a big step back and re-assign family priorities. Design a cleaning routine that helps to manage the clutter and dust bunnies because no one lives in a museum 24/7. Look at how you homeschool and totally do it differently (especially if you are mimicking standards and methods of public school.) Look, I'm not here to tell you how to run your homeschool or how to raise your family. But from experience I can tell you that the way I manage anything related to my family is the cause of any chaos that takes over our space. Yes, that hurts. But quitting because of my lacking would hurt worse. 

Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus.Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead.
Philippians 3:12-13




Friday, December 19, 2014

Awesome Mashup!!

Y'all know how much I love Star Wars and to be all mashed up with Calvin and Hobbes is just phenomenal! I really must get my comic books out and encourage the little brood to read them. Well..... maybe not B#4. I can see him trying to do all the "fun" stuff that Calvin does!

Have a fantastic Friday and remember to try and not act like a Grinch during the last few days before Christmas!!!

Saturday, June 21, 2014

TOS Summber Celebration Bundle


To celebrate the coming of Summer, TOS has offered a great bundle to keep your little, and big, minds active while having some fun too! I just ordered mine and can't wait to download the free files and get started. I'm really looking forward to the Zombie Ants in the Curiosity Files!

You don't want to miss out on this great deal!!!

HAPPY HAPPY SUMMER!!!!! 


 TOS Summer Bundle

Monday, June 16, 2014

What happened!???

Did ya miss me? Have you wondered what happened to me and where I went??  Well, here is the buzz. A while back I logged on to my blog to start on a post, and a lot ( I mean A LOT) of my pictures are gone!!!!!!!!!  Talk about being ill. I have never been so physically ill over something like that before and it put a big 'ol damper on my enthusiasm to continue this blog. But I did put a lot of effort into the posts and I guess that didn't register with me until I saw all the empty spots where pictures use to be.....

Live and learn I guess...just never link, then delete your Picasa back up photos to your blog....at least I think that is what happened. So, I am starting to search for the missing pics on my hard drive, my flash drives, and might even go back into some old floppy drives (yes, I am that old!!)  Do you know how many pictures there are to go through....do you!!!!????  At least I have the what, where, when, and who's of the posts saved here so I can do some sort of process of elimination. So be patient as you scroll, I am trying to fix this mess as well as add new stuff!!